6. This is Thirty- Five - Reflecting During the Milestones of Your Life

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Hey everybody.

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It's Chelsea VanBuskirk
with the Heart AF podcast.

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Hope you all are doing well!

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Today, I'm 35.

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It's my birthday, super excited.

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I'm singing all the birthday
songs to myself today.

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So yeah, 35.

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I feel pretty adult.

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I feel like that is the age where
you can officially be like, no.

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I I'm definitely an adult.

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Like I am one of those adultier adults..

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Still, there are more adult adults
than myself, but yeah, I feel

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like 35 is a good age it makes me
feel anyway that I'm legitimate.

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You know, I feel like I always
hang out with older groups,

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so I was always the youngest.

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And so I

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tended to think of myself as less
than, or feeling like I didn't get as

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much respect because I was younger.

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So 35 feels like it's a legit age
where maybe more people will take

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me seriously, because guess what?

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I'm an adult and I'm 35, so yeah.

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I actually was walking and talking
with a friend who also turned 35 this

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year, recently, and we were walking
and talking and I'm like, holy shit.

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This means that I was 15, 20 years ago.

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Wait 20 years ago.

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I was 15.

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And that was the point where it
really sunk in just how old 35 is.

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Relatively 35 is young.

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Right in my head.

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When I think of turning 35, like I
said, I was pretty excited about it,

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Putting that relation to it, knowing
that I can remember a lot of things from

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when I was 15 and knowing that was 20

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years ago.

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Makes it sound like that
was a long time ago.

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Like when you think of a parameter
of 20 years that feels like a

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extremely long amount of time.

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Like that was more traumatizing.

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You know, when you think of
getting older and you come to these

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realizations and, maybe having some
big feelings about getting older.

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Like that was the moment where
I had some big feelings where it

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was like a realization of, wow.

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Yeah, man.

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I am getting older, right?

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There has been a lot that
has happened since I was 15.

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Right.

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And another year.

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It's good.

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I mean, every year that you have a
birthday, it's a great day because it's

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another year that you've been alive.

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It's another year that
you've had life experiences.

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I know for myself, there's been lots
of hard things I've gone through in

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my life, which I'm sure most people
also have gone through many hard ships

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along their life journey as well.

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And birthdays give you this
chance to reflect a bit.

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And I think 35 is that age.

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Like when you get to those, 30, 35,
40, like those big years tend to

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be really good reflection points.

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I think the first big birthday
is 18 and you're an adult.

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And then you have a nice jump in
a couple of years at your 21st

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birthday where you're finally
able to legally drink alcohol.

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And then after that,
your next birthday is 25.

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So you hit some big milestones as you get
into adulthood, you got 18, 21 and then

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25, you're like, oh shit, I'm a quarter
of a century old now, this is a big deal.

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Like, I feel like that's the first
age where you're like, wow, I'm

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actually not a teenager anymore.

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I'm actually an adult.

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And then you hit 30 and
you're like, oh shit.

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I'm out of my twenties.

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I'm in that next bracket,
now I'm in my thirties.

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That's adulthood.

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And now here I am at 35.

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This is adulthood.

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Like each little milestone and
I'm sure when I hit 40, it's

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going to be like, oh shit.

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Now it's really starting to
feel like I'm getting old.

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No, just kidding.

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I have a lot of friends from their
forties and they're the same.

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Right?

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Like, I feel like there's a range
of ages where you're all the same

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and really age is just a number.

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I feel like you're only
as old as you feel.

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And honestly, a lot of times I still
feel like a teenager and I also still

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act like one in certain moments.

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So, Anyway!

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What I thought was really cool is I
happened to come across this note.

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I wrote.

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Five years ago in 2017.

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So that was a big year for me.

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It was a big transitional year.

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There was a lot of things going on.

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I was kind of coming out of
2016 into 2017, trying to

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start a business for myself.

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I really had this Ambitious goal of
creating something that was mine.

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I was a beach body coach for a long time.

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If you guys are familiar with
that company, still a great

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company, I'm still part of it.

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But.

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When I first started in 2012 I really like
went full on and did the whole coaching

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thing and grew a team and all this.

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And around 2016, I was having a lot
of body image issues and I had done

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some bodybuilding competitions and I
was coming out of that and realizing

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I had a lot of body dysmorphia.

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I had a binge eating disorder
and that wasn't really the space

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for me to be having a business.

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And as I was still healing my own
food struggles and at that time, I was

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really against like this diet culture
and a lot of different programs that

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had affected me in my body image and
dieting issues and my binge eating.

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So I was trying to start a business that
wasn't affiliated with any other business.

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I really didn't want to
sell people products.

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Like I wanted to step away from that
wanted to focus on just helping people,

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being real, sharing my struggles and
sharing how I'm getting through my

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struggles, helping other people that
might be having similar struggles.

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And I think that message and my
ambitions still hold true to that

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core value or what my intentions are
in creating something for myself.

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Over the years, my ways have evolved
and I actually got in to real estate

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in 2017 and that spiraled into a whole
other business and here I am today.

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But what I thought was interesting
is in 2017, I was in a business

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creation I guess you could say
workshop, or like a course.

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And it was specifically made
for moms who wanted to create

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a business for themselves.

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So it was awesome because
it was specific to moms.

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Women who had a passion for creating
a business for themselves, but also

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had the responsibility of being a mom
and how to navigate being a mom while

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creating a business simultaneously.

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And so it was really perfect for
me and where I was at at that time.

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Anyway, this note, one of the
activities we did through this

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business group was the airport test.

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If I remember right.

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But essentially it was where you want
to be in five years or what do you

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want to see in your life in five years?

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And so in 2017,

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I had written down that I
wanted a business of my own.

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That was from my creation.

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that was really the biggest
piece for me is that I wanted to

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have something that was my own.

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That came from me.

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Something that I created, that
I was passionate about and

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I wanted to have a business.

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in that.

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I also wrote that I was.

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Hoping to have a third baby who
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Another thing I wrote down in that
list was having a beach house in

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Hawaii that we would be living in
our dream home with mountain views.

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And then the last thing I wrote was having
a good relationship with my husband.

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So it was really interesting that I just
found that and I was like, holy shit,

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this was literally five years ago in 2017.

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And how crazy that all
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I shit you not like we have our baby.

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And he's a boy and he's three.

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So that came into fruition.

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I'm doing my business and it's taken
me a lot of different twist and

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turns and, you know, changing my
mind and, and going different routes.

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But I finally am stepping into
exactly what I want to do,

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which one is doing this podcast.

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That's writing my book and it's
not selling products or selling

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things like that has not ever
really been a desire of mine.

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I just have a desire to Speak and share
my stories and build relationships

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with people, and help people in
some way, improve their lives and

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help people in ways where they're
struggling in their life to help

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improve their lives or inspire people.

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That's really my goal.

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It's not to sell anybody, anything.

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And there's nothing wrong with selling
people stuff, don't get me wrong.

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I'm not against any sales business.

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I think those are great.

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And I'm a consumer, I
get sold all the time.

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Like I buy stuff.

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So nothing against that.

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Just, for me, that has
never been a goal of mine.

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I guess, you know, once
I get my book out there.

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Obviously that's something
I'm going to be selling.

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But yeah, I mean, just
amazingly, everything on this

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list has come to fruition.

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So in 2020 we bought the house
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I mean, this is crazy how this house
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at a crossroads where we were possibly
thinking of relocating to Florida,

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which was going to be a big deal.

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And so I had written down in
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home that I had in my mind.

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And it was going to have enough
bedrooms for all of our kids.

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I was going to have a space to have an
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And the other things I wanted
was to be near a park and I wanted

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a hot tub, a pool, and a play set

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And, originally when I was writing this
down, I'm thinking of Florida house with

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a pool in the back yard and everything.

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Anyway, I had written this down
and we were talking about it.

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And then my husband saw this
house that we're in now come up

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and we went to go look at it.

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And I was like, oh my gosh,
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It had all their rooms.

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We wanted, the
neighborhood was beautiful.

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It was walking distance to a
playground park for the kids.

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It had a community pool that was
walking distance, just a few houses

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down the house came with a hot tub
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It was amazing.

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And looking back, I saw this
note and I was like, holy shit.

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I literally said like our dream
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So we don't really have direct mountain
views, but in my bathroom window, I

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get a great shot and in our backyard
and in my husband's office, he has

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got a nice shot of the mountains.

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So it still does have a mountain view.

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Maybe not exactly what I was
thinking when I wrote that.

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I mean, I don't know, but it
just is so crazy to me that

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actually manifested and came true.

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And again, it knocked all those things
that I had written on that note paper in

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2020 before we bought this house, when we
were making that decision, whether or not

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we were relocating or staying in Colorado.

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It's like this house came up and it
checked every single one of those boxes.

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I had written down for myself
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then the other thing I wrote.

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About the Hawaii beach house.

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So this is another really crazy story,
because I think at this time we had

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been to Hawaii once we had been to
Or maybe I'd been twice in my life

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before, but as a family with my husband,
we'd been, once we went to Oahu.

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And did Waikiki and that
whole thing, which was lovely.

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And we had a great time and.

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I wrote down that I would like
to have a beach house in Hawaii

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someday, which is just weird.

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And I think the other reason why maybe
I wrote Hawaii was because my mom

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and actually my half brother my ex
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still live on the island of Kauai.

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My mom had lived on Kauai for a number
of years and I never visited her there.

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And I still never been
to Kauai to this day.

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I will make it happen.

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But, you know, I just feel like
there's a part of my family

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that has this Hawaii thing.

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Right.

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And so that would be a dream
to have a house in Hawaii.

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Well, in 2018, we took a
trip as a family to Maui.

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And we fell in love with Maui and we
had split our vacation into staying

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in an Airbnb for half the time,
and then staying at a regular you

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know, kind of hotel on the beach.

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So we stayed in two different
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So if you're not familiar
with Maui, there's a couple

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different sides of the island.

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And at our first trip, we stayed
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on the Southern tip of the island.

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island, which is very touristy.

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There's a lot of like hotels there.

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Anyway, on that trip, we just fell
in love and we loved our experience

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staying in the Airbnb, which was in
Kihei and we also fell in love with the

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area it's the Southern part of Maui.

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I feel like it gives
you like a local vibe.

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Not really resorts it's
more on vacation rentals.

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So a lot of condos and some of
them are on the beach and stuff.

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It's just beautiful.

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And we stayed at this one condo that was
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this little beach, that's more for locals
so not like these big touristy spots.

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We met a realtor while we were there and
we were talking to her cause we thought

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this would be really great to have.

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a condo that we could do a
vacation rental out of just

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like the one that we stayed in.

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We stayed in touch with her and we
kept our eyes open and looked at

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things as they came up for over a year.

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And it wasn't until the end of 2018.

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When we finally found one
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same complex we had stayed in.

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So we made an offer and we got it.

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We got our first
investment property there.

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And I think originally we thought
we'd probably use the same people

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that we had booked through as property
management service, and then we

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found out how much they charged.

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And so my husband's like, why
don't we just try to do this

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on our own and see how it goes.

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And so it was very much a
learning curve of a process.

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We learned a lot.

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It wasn't pretty.

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But since we closed on that first
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It's now I sh it's my fucking birthday.

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I should know the date.

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Now we're in September of 2022, and we now
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We have two in Lahaina and three in Kihei.

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And then we now have two other beach
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Destin area, Fort Walton beach area.

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I mean, it just crazy that I
literally wrote down 2017 with

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just thinking, like, wouldn't that
be cool to have a beach house?

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I would love to have a beach And now fast
forward, five years later we have seven.

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I don't think when I wrote that down,
I was thinking they would be these

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short-term investment properties.

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And I sure didn't think that I
would be the one that would be

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managing them all from Colorado.

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But here we are.

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So.

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I think it goes to show
that it's really cool.

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If you can take the time to, whether
it's a birthday or just a random

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Tuesday, like writing out goals
that you have for yourself and

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maybe giving yourself timelines.

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Like this is where I want
to see myself in five years.

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This is where I want to
see myself in 10 years.

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And then when you can go back and
look and see how much of these things

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actually manifested for yourself.

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I think it's important to write
down things that are believable

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for you, that you believe that you
can do, because that's a big piece

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of being able to manifest anything
for yourself and reaching goals is

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actually believing that you can do them.

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My husband is a great example of
this and it cracks me up because I

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don't think he knows how great of a
manifestor he actually is, because I

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think he's not the type of guy that
really believes so much maybe in the

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law of attraction or manifesting.

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But what's funny is he does,
and he does it without even

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knowing that's what he's doing.

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But from the time I've met him, he's
always known that he was going to

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hit these specific goals as far as
building a business and the type of

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income that he wanted in his life.

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Like he saw that and he
believed that for himself.

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He would tell me that as you know,
a teenager, he would drive by these

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neighborhoods of million dollar homes.

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And he would say to himself, if there's
this many millionaires out there who

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can afford to live in these homes,
then that's possible for me too.

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And I think that's how you
have to look at your own life.

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Like if you see other people having
and doing and being the things that

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you want for yourself, then you need to
use that as your permission slip that

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that's possible for you too,, and then
believing that it's possible for you too.

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And then writing this stuff down,
creating vision boards, like

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all that stuff really works.

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It really does.

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Like I have a vision board up here for me
for this year and things are happening.

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Like I'm putting things in place.

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Like it doesn't mean you just write it
down and just hope for the best, right?

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Like that's not how it works,
but it's having that belief

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and then taking these actions.

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Again with our vacation rentals.

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Like that was a total risk.

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Like I talked to people all the time,
especially when I was more working in real

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estate, like people are scared to take
that leap and to do investment properties.

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Like it's scary for a lot of people
and I told them it was scary for us

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too, but we took that risk and now
our rental income makes way more than

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what I was making as a real estate
agent and I'm working A fraction of

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the time, like even self managing it.

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I probably work maybe 10 to 15 hours
a week on the rental management stuff.

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Like it's not bad.

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Some of the jobs are annoying
and I do complain to my

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husband a lot about it because.

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I'm really horrible at customer
service and running a business

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because I typically sympathize with
our people and it's hard for me.

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I get taken advantage of, I'll say that
and it's hard for me to compartmentalize

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or not get offended and things . So I
have to work harder at that and I'm sure

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my job would be a lot easier as far as
management goes, but I'm just saying.

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That going after your dreams is scary
and it does involve taking risks.

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It involves like taking
actions that are scary.

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And when you start doing something
new, like, are you going to be great?

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No, like I'm starting this podcast,
is the first episode great?

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No, it's not like I gave my simple
explanation of what the podcast

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was going to be, but my editing
sucked, but you know, I'm going to

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show up every week and I'm going to
continue to learn and get better.

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And maybe one day I'll get to
the point where I can pass off my

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episodes to get professionally edited.

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But until then I'm going
to edit them myself.

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And it's going to be what it is, and
it's just going to grow and evolve over

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time and I'll get better at speaking
more clearly and not having to edit

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as much or getting the episodes more
fluent or better for my audience.

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You know, those are things
I'm going to learn over time.

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So the intention of this episode was
wanting to say, Hey, it's my birthday.

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And also just this cool thing
about writing your goals and

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how things can unfold for you.

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I think I will do another episode.

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That's maybe a little bit more detailed
on how to manifest or more about the law

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of attraction, but for now I think it's
just really cool that if you want to take

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the time and write out some things for
yourself, like where do you see yourself

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in five years and write that down?

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I went ahead since I had found that
note from 2017, the year I turned

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30 and reflecting and then seeing
how much stuff had played out.

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I was like, holy shit, this is so cool.

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I always knew I wanted to share that
one example of this house we're in,

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because I thought that was insane.

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That the fact that I had wrote all that
stuff down and I was thinking it was

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going to be a Florida house that we found
and then ended up being a Colorado house.

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I think that's the thing we have
to keep in mind too, is that when

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we have these goals for ourselves,

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It may not happen the
way we think it will.

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You know, like when I wrote down
a Hawaii house, I wasn't thinking

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that it was going to be this
whole new revenue stream for us.

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I didn't know this was going to
be a whole new business venture

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of us having vacation rentals.

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I had no idea that's what was
going to manifest from this.

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That wasn't my goal when I wrote it
down, I just wrote down a beach house.

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You just never know how
things are going to turn out.

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You might have a goal of
Reaching a certain income level.

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Maybe when you're first writing that goal,
it's in your current situation, you feel

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like you want to grow your income by doing
X, Y, Z, but then turns out you do grow

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your income, but it came by way of ABC.

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Like you just don't know exactly how
things are going to unfold for you

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or how things are actually going to
turn out, but you get the same result.

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Right.

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And I think what is meant
for you, is there for you.

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And again, it has to do with your
belief in it and knowing that

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whatever you want is already here.

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And if you know that and believe that.

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Then you don't need to worry about the
how, and when it's going to happen,

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you just have to have that belief.

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You need to take actions and do
things to help get yourself there

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and then being okay when things
don't go exactly as you plan them.

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But to stay confident in knowing
that it's going to show up for you.

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Like I can use my book,
as another example.

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I've known, I wanted to
write a book forever.

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And I finally.

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Jumped in and started working on it.

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And I joined a writer's workshop
community, And I've been in

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that for over a year and been
kind of like in and out of it.

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And they Offered a four day intensive
workshop and I decided to sign up for And

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it was the first time I actually showed up
and was physically present for each day of

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the virtual workshop, which is unheard of.

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I've signed up for so many workshops
and just have never showed up.

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I plan to watch the recording,

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90% of the time.

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I never do.

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It was the first time . I showed
up and went every single day.

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And I got so much information
from this workshop.

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And inspired me, like I'm
going to do this right.

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And so with this workshop, You're given
the opportunity to submit a book proposal.

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To a publisher and this publisher
happens to be my dream publisher.

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And normally you can not submit a proposal
to them unless you have a literary agent.

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So being a part of this workshop, you get
kind of this green light to submit a book

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proposal without having a literary agent.

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And so I'm like holy shit,
I'm going to do that.

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And then I got to thinking they had
another submission opportunity for anybody

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who is part of the writers community,
which I had been a part of for the year.

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And I'm like, oh, well
that deadline sooner.

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Maybe I'll get it done by then.

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And so I got my book proposal done and I
submitted it with that submission window.

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I was sure I was going to get picked.

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I mean, I was so sure, like I know that
my book is meant for this publisher.

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I know it.

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I believe it.

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I can see it.

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I did not get chosen.

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In that book proposal submission,
I was up against 200 other people

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that had submitted their proposal.

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So.

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You know, that's a lot and I'm
sure a lot of them are very good.

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Some of them are probably working
on the proposals for years and I've

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been working on mine for six weeks.

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So I decided that's okay.

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I'm going to, refine my proposal and
re-submit it on this other submission

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deadline that's happening here next month.

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And so that's my plan.

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It'll be just for people
who attended the workshop.

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So it should be a smaller
pool of people that submit.

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And we'll see what happens.

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And I'm confident that one way or
the other, my book will be published.

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I know that for a fact.

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And I also know that one day
I will be a published author

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through the publishing house.

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I'm meant to be in.

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So.

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My belief right now is that it's going
to be with this specific publisher,

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but you know, maybe in the future, it's
not, maybe there's another publisher.

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That's even better for
my book, I don't know.

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But I do know that one day.

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My book's going to be published and
I'm going to keep working on it.

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I'll see what happens
with this submission.

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And then i'll you know
continue to finish my book and.

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Get it published one way or
the other, like it's happening.

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And you guys can follow me
along through this story, in

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this ride and see how this goes.

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Like it takes a long time to
get a book out into the world.

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Right now , I'm still working on the
manuscript, working my way through it.

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And, So, yeah, once I get
that finished, we'll see what

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happens on the publishing side.

462
00:20:45,972 --> 00:20:49,414
And we'll see what happens with this
proposal submission here in October.

463
00:20:49,431 --> 00:20:51,707
I'll find out what happens in December.

464
00:20:51,707 --> 00:20:55,187
So it's a 60 day waiting period,
which is really fun way to exercise

465
00:20:55,187 --> 00:20:58,517
my patience on finding out the
results of that submission.

466
00:20:58,847 --> 00:21:01,367
And if I don't get chosen totally fine.

467
00:21:01,367 --> 00:21:04,097
I just know that it means there's
something better that's coming or

468
00:21:04,097 --> 00:21:05,657
whatever's meant to be is still there.

469
00:21:05,657 --> 00:21:09,471
I still believe and know that I'm going
to be a published author, no matter

470
00:21:09,471 --> 00:21:13,081
what this book is getting published and
I'm going to keep working on my book.

471
00:21:13,581 --> 00:21:16,041
And I'm going to take
each opportunity I have.

472
00:21:16,041 --> 00:21:20,281
And so I have this opportunity to submit
this proposal to my ideal publisher.

473
00:21:20,781 --> 00:21:23,811
And I'm going to step back and
let the universe handle the rest.

474
00:21:23,811 --> 00:21:25,301
And what's meant to be, is meant to be.

475
00:21:25,331 --> 00:21:27,231
I'm confident in the
end result happening.

476
00:21:27,591 --> 00:21:28,521
The way it's meant to.

477
00:21:28,618 --> 00:21:31,528
I definitely felt some feelings
when I didn't get picked.

478
00:21:31,528 --> 00:21:31,828
Right.

479
00:21:31,828 --> 00:21:34,558
Like that's real, but it was quick lived.

480
00:21:34,558 --> 00:21:37,088
Like I quickly got over it because
I knew it had another opportunity.

481
00:21:38,068 --> 00:21:41,308
And I still had that faith
and that knowing that my book

482
00:21:41,308 --> 00:21:42,118
is going to be in the world.

483
00:21:42,118 --> 00:21:43,168
I know that it's needed.

484
00:21:43,408 --> 00:21:45,328
I know that I'm going to get it
out there one way or the other.

485
00:21:45,428 --> 00:21:45,468
Anyway.

486
00:21:46,062 --> 00:21:47,442
If you guys don't know.

487
00:21:47,546 --> 00:21:52,406
All my podcast episodes are also video
podcasts and they are always uploaded

488
00:21:52,406 --> 00:21:56,300
to YouTube the same day that they
come out on the podcasting services.

489
00:21:56,300 --> 00:22:01,820
So if you ever want to see my face and my
expressions and my hand talking movements,

490
00:22:02,090 --> 00:22:03,980
you can see the videos on YouTube.

491
00:22:04,018 --> 00:22:04,920
So that's fun.

492
00:22:04,980 --> 00:22:08,490
I think you can just search my name
and find me Chelsea VanBuskirk which

493
00:22:08,490 --> 00:22:11,670
is just like, it sounds people like to
mess that up, but it's a van like the

494
00:22:11,670 --> 00:22:16,630
car bus, like the car and Kirk, like
captain Kirk, all one word VanBuskirk.

495
00:22:16,689 --> 00:22:20,409
And you can also find me on my
website, Chelsea van buskirk.com.

496
00:22:20,439 --> 00:22:24,069
There's a contact me form if you guys
ever want to give me a shout, give me

497
00:22:24,069 --> 00:22:28,539
some questions you want me to talk about
on an upcoming episode, give me feedback.

498
00:22:28,539 --> 00:22:31,179
Or if you have any comments
on any episode you've listened

499
00:22:31,179 --> 00:22:33,063
to, or you just want to say hi.

500
00:22:33,081 --> 00:22:36,771
You can also find me on social
media, on Facebook and Instagram

501
00:22:36,871 --> 00:22:41,911
at Chelsea dot VanBuskirk on
those social media platforms.

502
00:22:42,391 --> 00:22:42,781
So.

503
00:22:42,928 --> 00:22:45,178
Do me a favor write out today.

504
00:22:45,208 --> 00:22:46,888
Whenever you're listening to this,
when you, when you have a moment

505
00:22:46,918 --> 00:22:49,718
to grab a piece of paper, I want
you to write out What do you

506
00:22:49,738 --> 00:22:51,208
see for your life in five years?

507
00:22:51,808 --> 00:22:55,128
And hold on to that, put it in the
notes section of your phone, put the

508
00:22:55,128 --> 00:23:00,058
date 2022 I see myself in five years,
blank, blank, blank, like put five things.

509
00:23:00,268 --> 00:23:03,598
You can even categorize it where you
see yourself in your relationships,

510
00:23:03,598 --> 00:23:06,198
your career and your spirituality
and your health wellness.

511
00:23:06,928 --> 00:23:08,278
Income, whatever.

512
00:23:08,315 --> 00:23:11,255
Put those little bullet points on where
you see yourself in five years and

513
00:23:11,255 --> 00:23:14,355
then see what happens in five years
and see if you achieve those things.

514
00:23:14,555 --> 00:23:18,245
I keep that in the back of your mind,
I just think it's so fucking trippy

515
00:23:18,275 --> 00:23:20,225
and really also fucking awesome.

516
00:23:20,645 --> 00:23:22,799
That these things have happened.

517
00:23:22,849 --> 00:23:24,049
I think you guys are all awesome.

518
00:23:24,049 --> 00:23:24,409
Thank you.

519
00:23:24,409 --> 00:23:28,161
I'm so thankful every week
I get new downloads, people

520
00:23:28,161 --> 00:23:29,481
are coming to the podcast.

521
00:23:29,481 --> 00:23:30,591
I think it's just so amazing.

522
00:23:30,641 --> 00:23:32,751
I just thank you so much
for helping me grow this.

523
00:23:32,751 --> 00:23:36,821
Next week we're doing the drawing
for the $50 Amazon gift cards.

524
00:23:36,821 --> 00:23:37,291
If you haven't heard.

525
00:23:37,991 --> 00:23:39,191
You still have a chance to enter.

526
00:23:39,221 --> 00:23:42,912
You just gotta DM me let me know
if you've shared subscribed,

527
00:23:42,912 --> 00:23:46,932
rated, or reviewed the podcast,
followed it, whatever you've done.

528
00:23:46,932 --> 00:23:47,772
Like let me know.

529
00:23:47,862 --> 00:23:50,532
I'm trying to grow it and I
appreciate you guys so much.

530
00:23:50,532 --> 00:23:52,672
So if you're helping me
out with sharing something,

531
00:23:52,985 --> 00:23:57,155
I want to pay it forward and enter you
in a drawing to win that $50 gift card.

532
00:23:57,695 --> 00:24:00,376
So, next week's the Q and a episode.

533
00:24:00,406 --> 00:24:02,746
So I'm going to be going over
some of the questions I received

534
00:24:02,746 --> 00:24:03,902
and just answering those.

535
00:24:03,902 --> 00:24:04,579
So if you have something.

536
00:24:04,666 --> 00:24:07,486
That you were thinking of asking,
please, don't be afraid to

537
00:24:07,936 --> 00:24:09,469
send me a DM on social media.

538
00:24:10,019 --> 00:24:10,869
Hit me up on my website.

539
00:24:11,389 --> 00:24:14,119
Submit me a question and I'll,
I'll get it on the show and

540
00:24:14,136 --> 00:24:15,066
we'll dissect that question.

541
00:24:15,066 --> 00:24:16,296
I'll answer it to the best of my ability.

542
00:24:17,196 --> 00:24:18,896
And yeah, happy birthday to me.

543
00:24:19,626 --> 00:24:21,966
Happy birthday to all my other
Virgos out there in the world.

544
00:24:22,033 --> 00:24:23,358
And yeah, this is 35.

545
00:24:23,451 --> 00:24:24,441
See you next week.

546
00:24:24,531 --> 00:24:25,310
Peace.