22. Be More You- Recognize Your Brilliance, You Have Nothing to Prove.

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Hey everyone, what's up?

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It's Chelsea Van Buskirk
with the Heart AF podcast.

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Hope you guys are all doing
well Okay, so we're, we're

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getting into the new year, right?

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This week was like my first week
where I was kind of back on schedule.

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Kids are back in school,
so that's really exciting.

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Um, it's not as chaotic in the house.

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I got some peace, and yet I still
have a ton of shit to clean up and do.

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But anyway, a lot of people, I
feel like when, um, we're talking.

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You know, the whole New Year's
resolution thing, like we're

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all about like a new me, right?

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Like, this is gonna be a
new me, a new version of me.

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You know, that kind of talk, which I
don't necessarily think is bad, but

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it brought up something for me that I
really felt compelled to talk about,

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and that is, instead of trying to change
yourself and be like somebody else, I

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feel like the focus should be on being
more you, like you need to be more YOU.

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Like maybe that's realizing like
when you're becoming a new you, it's

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actually just becoming more of who you
really are in the first place, right?

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Because so often we walk around
and go about our life doing things

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for other people or trying to be
something for other people, or trying

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to be who we think we have to be.

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And this is the year, this is a chance for
you, a new year, a new beginning, right?

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Is a chance for you to be more you and
to be more authentically you, right?

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And.

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In an unapologetic way, right?

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Like, you don't need to apologize
for being who you are for

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living life out loud as you are.

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And the thing that it, it just, my
wheels started spinning because I

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know I did this to myself a lot is
I'm always trying to strive for more.

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I'm always trying to achieve
because I don't feel good enough.

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Right.

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Like I'm always thinking
of what should I be doing?

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Like I literally freeze up when
people ask me, what do you do?

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Because I don't really
have a solid answer.

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There's the answer of I manage our
properties, but then it's got, I gotta

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go into the story about how I'm not
managing properties for other people.

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I'm actually managing
properties that we own.

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And then I felt, feel self-conscious
about that because I don't

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wanna feel like I'm bragging.

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Um, you know, or I, it's not
like my passion and so then I

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feel, you know, it's just weird.

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I get all up in my fucking head
about it and it's stupid, right?

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But I feel like I should be doing more
because the thing I love doing is I love

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doing this podcast, and one thing I kind
of reflected on is the other part of what

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I was trying to do is write this book.

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And I really have let my ambition go as
far as making the time to work on my book.

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I really haven't been working on
it, and that's something that was

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important to me that I really wanna do.

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But that's so, you know, it's always
like, I feel like I'm in transition.

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So people say, what do you do?

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I wanna tell 'em about like, oh, I'm
writing a book and I have a podcast.

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But on the other hand, I know those
are things I'm not getting paid for.

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Right?

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Like, that's not really like my job.

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And I think it's a similar answer when,
you know, maybe stay-at-home parents

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when they say, I'm a stay-at-home parent.

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Like, you feel a little weird about
saying that because even though that's

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something you're doing and it's an
important job, you're not getting paid.

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And when you're not getting paid, you
almost feel like it's not valuable

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or it's not, you know, like are, you
don't, you're not doing enough, right?

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It's weird, right?

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I don't know.

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Um, and the whole, like being a
stay at home parent thing, like that

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was something that was really hard
for me that I struggled with a lot.

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Like I never felt like that was enough.

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And the truth of it is, is the
hardest job in the world, the

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hardest thing I've ever done.

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And I've talked.

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A ton of parents who have been a full
stay-at-home parent, and it's the

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hardest job you'll ever do, right?

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It's draining, it's exhausting.

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Like you're always doing
something, it doesn't matter.

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Like there's always
something to do, right?

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And you're not getting that constant
appreciation or the paycheck or the

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bonuses or your paid vacation or your
sick days like you are 24 7, 365.

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I mean, that's just kinda the life of a.

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And even as a working parent, it's
like you're working your job, then you

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come home and you work as a parent.

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Like parenting is a no days off job.

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It is constant.

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And you know, I don't think it's something
that just stops when the kids turn 18.

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I mean, you still, you still have
children after they turn 18, right?

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They might be outta your house.

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You might have less responsibility
over them in a lot of ways,

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but you're still right.

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You're still on, like you're still
the parent and there's still a lot of

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things to do, um, kind of sidestepping
here, but just, that kind of had me on

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a role too with like the whole parenting
as a job cuz it is a full-time job.

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Absolutely.

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And it deserves way more accolades
and credits than it gets.

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And um, and I think that, um, could be a
perhaps cultural thing or societal thing.

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Like I think we're getting better
at acknowledging the important piece

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that stay-at-home parents play and
just all the things that they do.

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But at the same time, there's
still that stigma, a little bit

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of not feeling like it's enough.

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Right.

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I mean, I'm a mom and I feel that, but
circling back about this, you know,

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being a new you and, and all these
things, like, I started thinking

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about how often are we like changing
ourselves, trying to be somebody else

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because we feel we're not good enough.

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and that's heartbreaking
because we are good enough.

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We are.

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Like, I know, , I'm so
lucky to have a best friend.

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I will.

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I kid you not like she is in my corner
and is there to not only pump me up and

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like reflect back to me on um, how good
I am and how well I'm actually doing,

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because I constantly second guess myself
and I know I can't be the only one.

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Right?

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Like we're constantly never thinking we're
good enough and like always feeling like

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we're incomplete or we have to do more.

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We have to prove ourselves and that
goes into this whole thing like, you

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know, the new year, we feel like we
have to have these goals or you know, we

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feel like we're not successful enough.

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We're not far as far as long as we
wanna be in our business or we're not.

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Our body shape isn't looking
how we want it to be.

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We're not as healthy as we'd like
to be, or we feel like we should

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be more like this or more like
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That means we're successful.

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Right.

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But the answer is no.

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That's not like you can't place your
happiness or your success on the future

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on if I have this, if I get this and I
want this, and once I have this, then

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I'm gonna be happy, then I'm gonna be
fulfilled, then I'm gonna feel worthy.

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The answer is no.

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That's not how it works.

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Your worth, your happiness, your joy
is when you come to the realization

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of knowing the brilliance that you
are, when you come to realize the

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divinity that's within you, right?

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When you can recognize
that you're already whole.

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That there is nothing wrong with you,
no matter where you are at in your life,

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whether you think you're behind or you
think you should be further ahead, or you

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think you should have this or whatever.

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You're okay and you're
beautiful, and you're perfect.

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Just the way you are right now in
this moment, and that's it, period.

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There's nothing you need
to do to prove your worth.

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Okay?

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And when you can start recognizing
that about yourself, recognizing

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that you're still whole, recognizing
that you're still perfect in just

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the way you are in this moment.

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That's when you can start
letting life flow for you.

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And it's when manifesting becomes
easier because you're in flow, because

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you recognize that you do have this
power that creator, that the creator

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that has created everything that we
see, like the birds, uh, trees, plants,

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animals, all, everything like that
creative energy is what's created you.

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It's a piece of you.

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It's you, right?

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Like you are the creator.

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You get to create your life.

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And so when you can recognize that
power within you, when you can recognize

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your brilliance and see that this human
experience, even though it can be hard and

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heartbreaking, and we're full of all these
human, um, like instincts and feelings

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and emotions and thoughts, like we can
be in control of that, we can be control

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in control of ourselves and we can create
whatever it is we wanna create and we just

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have to realize it, we have to wake up.

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This process of awakening is about
coming to remember and realize your

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innate power, your innate perfectness,
like that magical gift that you have

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as you like being born into this world
at this specific time, for a reason.

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Like there is much more than
just our outside world day,

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our day-to-day life, right?

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Like we get so caught up in the
day-to-day and achieving and

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wanting to succeed, and wanting the
acknowledgements and the recognition.

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And the thing is, and I feel like
the, and we wanna be seen, right?

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We wanna be seen, we wanna be
heard, we wanna be validated.

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But you're not gonna get that
until you validate yourself,

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until you realize you're worthy.

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Without having to do anything,
you have nothing to prove.

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You have an innate worthiness within you.

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Just you being here in this life, in this
moment makes you worthy of everything

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you could ever wish for, hope for
whatever you wanna create in your life.

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You were worthy and deserving of it.

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And I feel like I'm repeating myself
a little bit from past episodes, but

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it's because this, this is something
I'm so passionate about and it's so

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needs to be heard, and it's something
that we neglect ourselves with,

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and, it's easy to forget, right?

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We, we go to sleep, like we forget and
we get caught up in this day-to-day

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life and having to do all these things.

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And, um, the thing is, is life
can get so much more beautiful and

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joyful when you realize your power.

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When you realize your divinity and
your worthiness, when you're not

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always trying to just go, go, go to
prove a point when you can realize and

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see yourself, and validate yourself.

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Just knowing that like
things just happen for you.

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I'm telling you, it's, it's ridiculous.

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It's crazy.

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Um, and it's beautiful and I just want
people to recognize that, to recognize

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within you because I guarantee you
there's people that see you that

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just like think you're amazing and
that, think you are doing wonderful

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things in your life and wish they
could be you, but you can't see it.

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It's so crazy we can't
see it about ourselves.

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Other people see it within us,
and we can't see it in ourselves.

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And that's really what I wanna
help people do is find that.

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find that piece within them
where you can realize, right?

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Like I said, my ma, my mantra, my mantra
for this year was realizing you're

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a badass bitch and tapping into that
badass bitch within you, like this

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is what this is about, is recognizing
that you are a badass bitch, right?

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Like, own that shit, own it, own you.

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Be more you.

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Don't try to be like anybody else.

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We don't need a lot of other
people all the same, right?

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Like we need you.

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We need you and your uniqueness.

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You have unique gifts to bring to this
world, and it doesn't mean you have to

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like strive and accomplish and make a
million dollars or whatever Not that

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there's anything wrong with that.

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And if you wanna do the things that gets
you those things in life, that's fine too.

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And that's great and wonderful,
but it doesn't validate you.

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That doesn't equate your worth.

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What you do is not who you are, Ok?

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What you accumulate is not who you are.

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You get it?

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Like we strive and we like, like
we will make ourselves sick.

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We're literally slowly killing
ourselves for something that

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doesn't even matter, right?

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Like you gotta find your own joy
and recognize this brilliance within

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you and recognize that there is
nothing about you that you need

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to do to make yourself worthy.

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When you recognize that you are worth.

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And that you can achieve
whatever you want and create

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the light that you wanna create.

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You can start making
things happen for you.

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And I'm not saying it's something that
just like proof magically happens, but

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when you have that right attitude, when
you have that love within you, that love

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for yourself, the love of which you came
from, when you're connected to that love

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that source, the energy that, that power,
that magic, when you're connected in it

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and you see that that's what's within you.

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Then you're vibing high, you're
vibrationally matching up for things

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to come into your life, right?

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Like you start opening
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You start being appreciative
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things that you already have.

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And when you're in that mindset of
being grateful for what you already have

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and knowing that you have everything
that you need, and knowing that you're

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fully loved, just as you already
are, you don't have to do anything.

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And that's when you get
more of that, right?

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Like that's when you start like attracting
things that are in alignment with how

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you're feeling, how you're vibing.

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. And it's interesting to me because
the more I talk about this, the more

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that I listen to the audiobooks and,
and other people talking about their

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spiritual, like spiritual experiences
and spirituality, it's, it's validating

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for me to hear that everybody's story
as far as like research or hearing

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people's like, um, connections with spirit
and just learning about our divinity.

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Like everything I research,
it's all the same.

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It's consistent.

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There's a consistency
there in all the messaging.

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Um, there's a new book I'm reading that's
amazing and it just like hits everything

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that I've been saying over and over again.

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It is just super validating to hear
that no matter the different authors I

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read about or pick up or the different
studies on metaphysics and different

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doctors and things that are talking
about, like, there's evidential, like

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to me, there's no coincidences, right?

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Like how, how can this many people be
saying the same stuff and be picking

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up the same things that I pick up on?

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Like there's something
valuable in that, right?

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That just solidifies everything that
I'm doing right now in what I am, quote

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unquote, preaching like, not that I
feel like I'm a preacher, but I feel

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like I have a message that I need to
share because I want other people to

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know that joy and that love and to
begin start looking within themselves

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to find that power and that love, right?

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Like it's not outside of you, right?

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God is not with not outside of you.

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He's within you, right?

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That source energy
piece that's within you.

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It is you, right?

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Like you have that power.

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And you don't have to repent,
and you don't have to prove

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your worth to get that right.

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That's something that like, I'm getting
more and more confident and, um, like,

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uh, secure, I guess you could say in like
voicing my, my opinion or what I am, um,

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seeing is you're already worthy, right?

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Like, I, I hate that indoctrination
that we get taught where you

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have to like prove your worth.

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Like it starts when we're a little kid.

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If you're good, if you do all
this, then you get rewarded, right?

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If you follow the rules,
then you're lovable, right?

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But that's not true.

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You're already loved.

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You're so loved.

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You are lovable just as you are.

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We get so caught up in all the, the
things we've been through that the

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mistakes we've made, and um, the
painful moments we've experienced.

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We feel, we feel rejected, we feel broken,
we feel unworthy, unloved, and we're not.

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We're loved just as we are, and
we don't have to change anything

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about ourselves to get to get love.

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You don't have to do
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You are.

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You just get to be just being yourself.

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Just breathing, just waking up in
the morning you were loved, okay?

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You don't have to do any tasks.

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You don't have to save the world.

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You gotta save yourself, and you save
yourself by recognizing that you are

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beautiful, that you have everything
you could ever need within you.

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Recognize your power.

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Don't be a new you.

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Be more you.

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Quit being a afraid of being yourself.

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Like walk, walk out loud, right?

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Like there's no more hiding, right?

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Like recognizing your beauty
and your power lets you

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stand up in a confident way.

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You get to stand in your beauty,
you get to fully bloom, right?

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I've talked about this before about
when the risk is greater to remain tight

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in the bud than it is to bloom, right?

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That quote, this is it.

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Bloom.

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Be you.

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Right.

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And there's nothing wrong with
trying to improve yourself, right?

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I'm not saying that you can still work
towards loving yourself more by maybe

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drinking some more water, taking some
more steps throughout the day, right?

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There's, there's, it's fine to be
healthy and wanna improve yourself

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because when you know more, when
you, when you know differently

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than you can do differently, right?

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Like we're all just doing the
best we can with the knowledge

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we have at that specific moment.

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So anytime we're learning and picking up
new knowledge, that's a chance for us to

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vibrate differently and to have new ways
of thinking to start doing differently.

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Right?

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And it doesn't mean we
were wrong back then.

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That was just our
experience in that moment.

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We were still loved and perfect in
that moment, just like we were still

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loved and perfect in this moment.

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Right?

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So there is evolvement, there is
changes in your life as you, as you

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raise your vibration and come to know
who you really are and come to know

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what spirituality means to you, and,
and knowing your power, like that's

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all transition and evolvement, sure,
you're gonna change, but it's becoming

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more you, you're becoming more of your
true self coming into your higher self.

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So you don't need to be somebody new.

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You don't need to be like this
person or that person, or do more

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of this or do more of that to be
more successful or accomplish more

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like you are just amazing, just as
you are, right, be you, be more you.

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That's the message for this week.

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And um, you know, I have nothing for l
but love for anyone that listens and,

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um, you know, shows up and listens to
my message and shows up to the show.

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I appreciate you so much.

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Thanks for being here.

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I think this is episode
22, which is great.

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I've been seeing a lot
of repeating twos lately.

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2 22 today even.

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So, um, thank you so much for being here.

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I'm really excited to really just be
the uplifter you need me to be for you

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and, um, I'd love to hear from you guys.

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I wanna know in what way can
you be more you this year?

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Let me know whether you comment
on the YouTube video when I post

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this on YouTube, or you send me
a DM on my Facebook or Instagram.

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Reach out to me on my website.

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Um, I'll link my contact information
in the description of this

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episode, but you know, I love you.

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I'm excited for what's to come this
year and I hope you're excited and just

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getting pumped up for your life too.

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Um, so you guys take care.

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I'll see you guys next week
and you know where to find me.

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ChelseaVanBuskirk.com or on Facebook
or Instagram at Chelsea.VanBuskirk

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let me know what's up.

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Please tell me how are you gonna
be more you this year in 2023?

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Get at me.

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All right.

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I'll see you guys next week.

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Peace.