16. Mother Fn’ Manifestin’ - Coming into our power of being the co-creators of our lives

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Hey everyone, what's up?

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It's Chelsea VanBuskirk
with the Heart AF podcast.

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Hope you guys are all doing well today.

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This week, I wanted to chat about the
law of attraction and manifesting and

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how you can manifest and co-create
things to come into your life.

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The art of manifestation is actually very
cool because it literally shows you how

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you can co -create your life and how so
much of your thoughts Create your reality.

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I dropped a few books in the last week's
episode, which I think pairs very well

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with manifesting and giving you, An intro
to energy and frequency and how like

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attracts like, or this law of attraction,

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that Basically goes hand in hand
with the art of manifestation.

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So one book I talked about by Pam
Grout, called E- squared, goes

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into a series of experiments that
you can do to prove to yourself how

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your thoughts create your reality.

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And manifestation is a big part of what
you think about . So really your thoughts

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and what you are putting your focus
onto is what is going to be reflected.

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And what's going to be
attracted back to you.

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So when you are wanting to do something
in your life or attract something

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into your life, but you're focused
on the fact that you don't have it.

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So your mindset is I don't have this.

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This is missing from my life.

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Your thoughts are focused
on what is missing.

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So you're going to keep getting
experiences that shows you that

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you're missing this in your life.

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Okay.

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So that's kind of the caveat
on how you manifest things.

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So you have to really think about how
you're thinking about the things that

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you're wanting to attract into your life.

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And what you're saying to
yourself about these things.

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So when you are complaining about the
way things are going in your life,

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that low vibrational energy, that
is not the space you want to be in,

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when you're manifesting, when you're
manifesting, you want to be high vibe.

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So I'm going to give you my best advice
on how you can manifest things for

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your life and how you can put your
intentions into the universe and have

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them show up for you in your life.

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It's amazing.

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And I think it's something that
everybody should learn how to do,

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because it is a kind of craft.

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It's something that isn't necessarily
easy because of our thoughts and

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our mindset, because we typically are
working on lower vibrational thoughts.

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So the more we can practice that
connection on being connected to

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our divine self, to our higher self,
then the easier manifesting becomes.

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So I'd say that's the only hard part when
it comes to manifesting is when our own

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thoughts and our ego gets in the way.

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So.

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The first thing to do when
you're manifesting is to

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actually know what you want.

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Like, be clear on what you want.

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Right.

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So you can't, you know, start to say,
like, I want to have this and then start

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worrying about what's going to happen.

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If you get that.

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You know, if you're sending the
universe mixed messages, they're

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not going to know how to read you.

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So it's really about putting your thoughts
and your intentions clearly out to the

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universe so that they can respond in like.

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And it's all about this
attraction, this like attracts

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like, what you focus on expands.

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You get what you think about.

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it's the same thing and I'm going to
hammer it in because it's so easy to

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forget and We get so wrapped up into
these negative thought patterns that

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it blocks us from manifesting and
creating the things that we want to do.

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So we can have goals and set goals
and write them out and be working our

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asses off, trying to achieve them.

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But we're not getting where we want to go.

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And it's usually because we have some
kind of block that's blocking us from

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the universe, delivering what we want

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okay.

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So, knowing all that.

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The other trick is to see from the end.

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Wayne Dyer always said that, see from
the end, so let's say you have a goal

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of doing something you need to see
yourself as that has already happened.

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Everything that you want to
create is already here for you.

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You have to have that mindset
that it's already here.

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You don't have to go look for it.

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There's nothing missing.

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It's already here.

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It's all available for you.

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It's all here right now right?

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You have to have that belief that
what you want is already here.

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And really having that belief, and
then knowing that you're worthy

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of receiving what it is you want.

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So that's the other piece of the
puzzle is knowing your worth and

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knowing your divinity and knowing
that whatever desire you have in your

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heart, was put there from your creator.

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It was put there to give you
that ambition and the passion

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because you have the
ability to get it, right?

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Like, whatever desire you have was put
there for a reason to give you that

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ambition and that purpose and the
ability for you to be able to have it.

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Right.

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So there is a reason for
you to have these desires.

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It's not silly to have these
big dreams, like the big dreams

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that you have in your heart.

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Are put there for a reason and
meaning that whatever you want is

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attainable, it's there for you.

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You just have to believe it and know it.

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And again, see yourself from the end.

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Like visualization is one of
the methods of manifestation.

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So, you know, people create vision boards.

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That's so important.

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Like if you create it, you see,
what is your life going to look

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like when you achieve this?

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When you get to that space that you want.

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Where you are, where you intend to be.

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So it's seeing and feeling like, how are
you going to feel like, literally it's

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taking your thoughts and putting yourself
in the shoes of yourself two years from

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now, when you are at the destination
you want to be at or whatever it is

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you're trying to manifest for yourself.

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So let's say you are dying to have a new
house with enough space for your family.

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Right?

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So Visualizing that perfect house,
seeing your family in that house,

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like you're you see it, you are
painting that picture in your mind.

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You're creating the vision board.

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You don't let go of that picture.

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You know, it's there for you and
you keep that belief and you do

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the things that, you know, you need

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In order to get a house, right?

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So there is work involved.

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Like you have to do the things
that are gonna get you closer.

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And you put that intention, you
put that visualization out there,

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you don't lose it and you'll let
the universe handle the details.

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Right.

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So, , whatever it is.

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Like you can do things in your power
to do the work, to get yourself ready

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to follow through with this goal.

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But it'll be the universe that might.

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Have this perfect house show up
for you at the perfect price point

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that allows you to get it right?

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Like the universe is going
to figure out the details.

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You just have to put your
intentions into the universe, right?

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Get crystal clear on what
it is you want visualize it.

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Hold that visualization.

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Believe that it's there for
you and that it's already here.

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It's just your, you have to be patient.

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And let divine timing do its thing
and it'll show up in the right time.

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and that's the other thing
too, is having that faith.

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And then not forcing it.

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So a lot of times our ego gets in the way
we feel like we have to accomplish things

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in a certain timeline on our timelines.

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And, you know, we're
trying to force things.

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We're trying to force
relationships to work.

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You know what it's like when
somebody is super needy, like

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it, it repels you, right?

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Like when somebody is just like too much
and you can tell like that desperation.

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So like a salesman.

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When they, are really desperate
to make that sale and the

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way that they talk to you.

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Like it just repels you, right.

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It makes you not want to
do business with them.

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You're like, no, nevermind.

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I don't want what you are selling.

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Rather than them just being open and
showing something that attracts you

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to want to do business with them or
attracts you to what they're selling.

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Right.

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So it's the same kind of thing where you
have to have faith and then surrender.

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Like you have to let go from the outcome.

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You can't be attached to the outcome.

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That is the other, piece of this
manifestation is letting the universe

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work out the details and having faith
that it's going to happen for you.

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The desire of you wanting
what you want was put there.

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From the creator from God, God has put
this desire in your heart, meaning that

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it is there and it's available for you.

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It's there.

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You have to believe it.

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And it's one of those things where
you'll see it when you believe it.

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Things are going to show up for you
and, in divine timing, the way that

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they're meant to, and you absolutely
have the power to create things

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and manifest things in your life.

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it's just acting from that place of
intention, that place of connectedness.

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Being in a high vibrational state, right?

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Like showing gratitude for what
you already have, knowing that

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what you want is already here.

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You don't have to chase it.

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It's already here.

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It's coming.

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You know that it's coming, you
have that faith it's coming right.

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And it might not happen in the way
that you think that it should, but

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it doesn't mean it's not coming.

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Something that, that you want
is going to show up and it's

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going to show up in the best.

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Way possible.

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I think I shared this example
before, but I can't even let you know

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about the house I'm in right now.

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But me and my family, we're
talking about moving across the

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country to a different state.

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And, I had visualized this house, right.

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I wrote out the things that
I wanted in our new house.

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How many bedrooms?

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The space.

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All these features I wanted, I
wanted to have a pool, hot tub

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near a park and a playground.

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And you know, enough space for all
the kids to have a room and for us to

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have a guest room and for me to have
an office, a yard, like there were

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so many things I had on this list.

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Okay.

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And I was looking at a different state.

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And, the perfect
house is going to come up.

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I know it's going to come up and.

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A house came up.

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It wasn't in the state we
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to, it was here in the state.

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We already lived in and it Had
all the features I had listed.

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It was so crazy.

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And anyway, we ended up moving and
getting this house and the house fit

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every box that I had visualized that I
wanted for our family, but in my head,

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when I created that list, I was thinking
we were moving to a different state.

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Like I thought that's where we were going.

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And when this house came up, it was one
of those things like, okay, if we get this

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house, that means we're not moving states.

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We're going to stay put in Colorado.

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That was a big, pivotal moment for us.

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And we ended up staying here in
Colorado and I'm glad we did because

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that's where we needed to be.

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So it's just.

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Really crazy again,
how the universe works.

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Like it's in divine timing.

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Like they know what's
the best path for us.

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So.

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I manifested this house is what I'm
saying is I wrote that visualization.

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I knew this house was
going to be there for us.

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I thought it was going to be in this
other state and it ended up being here.

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So I'm just trying to tell you
that it can show up differently

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than what you might expect.

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I hope that explains a little
bit of what I'm trying to say.

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So, know what you want
to manifest for yourself.

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Be clear, visualize it for yourself.

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If it's a car, visualize the car.

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Oh, I manifested my car.

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That's the other thing.

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I have a white Toyota Sequoia.

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I've wanted this car for years.

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I drove a Highlander at first.

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I really wanted to upgrade to a Sequoia.

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And my husband's like, no, we really
don't need to get a new car at this point.

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But as our kids are getting
older, we have three kids.

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I wanted a vehicle that was
bigger that had more room.

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And so, you know, I was
doing a lot of research.

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The Sequoia was something I wanted because
I knew it would do well in the snow.

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And it just had all these, features
and Toyotas lasts forever.

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There was just a lot of things that I
love about Toyota and this specific car.

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And so my heart was set on that car.

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when we finally, start
looking for this car.

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It was really hard to find one.

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I usually buy used, we usually
don't buy new cars, so I'm, I was

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scouring the used car online forums.

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Not really seeing much, there
was a few in a couple other

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states, but nothing quite fit.

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Then we were talking about possibly
going the minivan route because

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they're so economical and there's
nothing wrong with minivans.

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We rent them when we
travel and they're great.

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Minivans are awesome.

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And there was a lot of features
that I did like about the minivan.

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I just really never saw myself as
a minivan person and I was going

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to embrace the minivan lifestyle.

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I actually was going to go
the whole new minivan route.

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And then there was just a shortage
on everything, so everything was

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taking a long time and, I still
kept, my heart on the Sequoia..

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I really wanted it.

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And I was very specific.

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I wanted a white Sequoia, it had
to have the audio package I wanted.

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I wanted, the gray interior.

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I wanted the tinted windows.

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I wanted it to have a sunroof.

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So the biggest key things
for me was that it was white.

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It had a sunroof and it had the auido
system I wanted and had the third row

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seat, and the gray leather interior.

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So those are the things that I wanted.

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I shit.

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You not, the perfect Sequoia popped up.

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It was used and it had
extremely low miles.

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I bought this car in 2021.

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It was a 2020.

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And it only had 4,600 miles on it.

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And I was like, shut the front door.

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Like no way this is my car.

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So I made an appointment right
away to go do the test drive.

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Went and checked it out.

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It was awesome it even had more
seats than I could get in the

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minivan because, it has three seats
in the middle and the third row.

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And it has the room , Like adults
to sit in the third row, and still has

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trunk space with the third row, which
was important to me anyway, all the

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features that I wanted was right there.

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It just was amazing the way
that that car came about.

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And then also for me to finance
it, um, all the cars I bought up to

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this point, I've always paid cash
for, I always traded in and paid

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the difference one way or the other.

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And this was the first car we decided
to finance and, um, my husband couldn't

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co-sign for me because he had just bought.

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A vehicle for his work.

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And so we were going to try to finance
it through his company, but we were

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under contract on a house at the time.

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Like there's all these things where
he couldn't be the co-signer because

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he was wrapped up in too many
other financing transactions and.

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We couldn't put his name on it.

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And the thing with me is I've never
fully financed anything on my own,

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you know, aside from like I have
a Kohl's card and things like that.

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So

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It was work to try to get this car
financed with just me, even though I

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have like joint income and everything,
and I had a good credit score, it was

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like, I don't have a long history of
credit because I have never financed a

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vehicle before they were always in cash.

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So it was a lot of, um, waiting.

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And I remember being like so emotional
because I know that typically I would

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call my dad and he would co-sign
for me, or my dad would help me out.

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And, he had passed before
this point it just was crazy.

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Like, actually I should talk actually,
I'm just gonna go and tell this story.

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So.

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At the car dealership.

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I'm stressing because this car is my car.

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I know it's.

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My car has got all the features I want.

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It's got the black tinted windows
like I said, the sound system,

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the gray interior, white, sunroof.

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All the things.

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They're trying to figure out which bank
can finance me right there, going through

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all the different places to see who can
give this young lady a chance, right.

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For her first like big financed purchase.

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And.

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One of the sales guys has this
little pug and it is like so

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cute as the cutest little pug.

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I love pugs my very first dog as a child
was a pug . And, the dog's name was

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Millie and the man that took care of
my dad had this litter of boxer puppies

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and he wanted to give my dad one.

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And my dad had it and named her Millie.

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My cousin ended up taking care of dog
because my dad was a quadriplegic.

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He really couldn't take
care of a dog on his own.

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So, my cousin and her husband inherited
the dog who they still have Millie girl.

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She's really sweet little boxer.

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Anyway, I thought, holy
shit, my dad's here.

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You know, like we're making things happen.

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The universe is helping me out.

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Like I knew that everything was
going to be fine and I was going

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to walk away with my car that day.

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But I mean, I remember Coming to
tears on the way home driving the car.

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Cause it did it worked out.

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I don't know if I got to
that end of the story, but.

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You know the dog and I'm petting it.

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And then the guy said,
oh yeah, that's Millie.

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And I was like, oh my
gosh, like, what the hell?

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That is so trippy.

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You know, what are the chances
I've never heard a dog named Millie

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before my dad named this dog Millie.

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So it just was amazing.

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But that's how the universe works.

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Isn't that fucking crazy.

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Like, spirit is always around us.

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they're always there, to help us
and guide us and show us signs..

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And it's just really about being
aware and open to things happening.

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So, those are just a few stories of how I
manifested some stuff, a house and a car.

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That's pretty cool.

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Right.

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So, yeah, like get clear on what
you want to manifest in your life,

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and then seeing from the end.

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I mean actually seeing and feeling
it, like write it down, like, how

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is that going to make you feel?

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What are you going to be feeling
when you have what you want?

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Right.

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Like see it, feel it.

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Believe that it's there for you.

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Know it.

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Know your divinity.

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Know that you're worth it.

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Stay in a high vibe, state of reception,
like staying in that high vibe state.

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Allows you to be open and receive
things from a higher vibe state, right?

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Like we have to have our energy match
that energy and the only way to connect

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and have our energy match, those higher
vibrational energies, that spirit

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that

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Divine energy.

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That is a part of us it comes from
above, that high level energy, like

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when you connect that and your flowing.

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That is the creation space.

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That is where you're manifesting.

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That is where magic is happening.

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That's where that white Sequoia showed up

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On my search that had everything I wanted.

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Perfect.

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Right.

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It was in my city.

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It had the low miles had
all the features I wanted.

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Right.

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How this house just popped
up and how we got it.

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It's just crazy.

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Like things happen, magic happens.

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Miracles happen all the time.

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Seeing from the end, believing it,
knowing you're worthy, knowing your

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divinity know that you're capable and
then being detached from the outcome.

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So being detached from the outcome
is like knowing that the house

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that we're in didn't show up in
the state I was looking in, right.

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Like if I was attached to us finding
this house, in that other state.

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I might've been so laser focused on that,
that I would have missed this house.

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Right?

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So it's letting go and surrendering and
letting the universe take control and do

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their things and figure out the details.

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Right.

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So one of the other things I want
to manifest for myself is my book.

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Right.

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Like getting my book
published and so I can see it.

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I can see the book.

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I can

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visualize The cover of the book.

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I can see myself talking about my book.

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I can see myself doing book signings.

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I can see all those things.

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But , I don't know how
that's all gonna happen.

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Right.

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All I know is that I'm going to
continue talking about my book.

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I'm going to continue sending my book
proposal out to different publishers.

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I know that I need to keep writing my book
and I know whatever's meant to happen.

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Will happen in divine timing.

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But I know that one way or the
other, I'm getting my book published.

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I know that for a fact, I feel it.

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I see it.

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It's on my vision board.

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I see from the end, I know it's coming.

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I have faith.

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And I just have to be
detached from any outcomes.

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Have to be detached from some of these
competitions I've entered the book

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proposal in, and knowing that it's okay.

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If it doesn't get picked by these.

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Submissions that I've made, right?

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Like eventually it's going to happen.

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It's just all about the timing
and the right people that are

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going to be there for me to get
this book out there and published.

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Right.

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So,

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Believe in yourself and know that
you are very capable of co-creating

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and manifesting things in your life.

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And it really just takes a few little
tweaks to unblock yourself from receiving.

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you have to know that you're
worthy, that your desires.

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Are meant for you, right?

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Whatever desire you have, whatever you
want to manifest in your life is there for

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a reason, which means it's meant for you.

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It's already here.

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It's already here.

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You just really have to have that belief.

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You have to believe it yourself.

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And you have to ask for it.

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Ask for it, intend for it, visualize it.

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You can write your
intentions out in a journal.

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Do the vision board.

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You have to put it into form, right?

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Put your thoughts into form.

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Everything that is here right
now came from a thought.

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So it all starts with your thoughts.

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So whatever you're thinking, whatever
that desire is, write it out.

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And don't write it as I want this.

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This is what I want, because saying
you want something is going to

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keep you in a state of wanting it.

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Right.

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I intend to do the things
to create this in my life.

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That's where you want to go.

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So if you're trying to use some kind
of an affirmation, like I intend to

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do the work to get my book published.

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Like that's what I would tell myself.

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Right.

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I see my book getting published
within the next two years.

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Stuff like that.

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It's already here, you know, it's
already here, so speak it that way.

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Speak it to yourself.

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Have your thoughts, say it that way.

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Write it out that way.

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Okay.

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Do your vision board, like you
see yourself in that vision, be as

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detailed as you possible, write it
out, write out your future self.

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Picture yourself and whatever you're
trying to manifest for yourself.

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Write it out.

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Okay.

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So be clear, ask for it.

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See from the end.

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I believe it.

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Okay.

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Have faith and patience and know
that it'll come in divine timing.

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Detach yourself from the outcome.

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Don't force anything.

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Surrender.

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And let yourself be able
to receive it, right?

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Like you have to just let, go and flow and
then just keep going on, keep doing it.

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00:19:44,179 --> 00:19:45,139
Don't lose focus.

480
00:19:45,139 --> 00:19:47,489
Keep that visualization of whatever
it is you're trying to achieve.

481
00:19:47,929 --> 00:19:48,779
Keep grinding

482
00:19:48,829 --> 00:19:51,239
keep your vibe high and
then watch it appear.

483
00:19:52,419 --> 00:19:54,939
So I hope that you got
something from this.

484
00:19:54,939 --> 00:19:57,219
I hope you try this
manifestation stuff out.

485
00:19:57,219 --> 00:19:58,989
It is amazing.

486
00:19:59,139 --> 00:20:00,489
It is possible.

487
00:20:00,879 --> 00:20:02,259
Get to it, right?

488
00:20:02,259 --> 00:20:02,859
Get to it.

489
00:20:02,859 --> 00:20:04,299
Start manifesting your dreams.

490
00:20:04,299 --> 00:20:05,529
I'm telling you, you can do it.

491
00:20:05,589 --> 00:20:06,309
It's amazing.

492
00:20:06,639 --> 00:20:08,139
And I'm going to be doing
it right along with you.

493
00:20:08,169 --> 00:20:08,739
It's hard.

494
00:20:08,739 --> 00:20:10,299
It's hard because we
get stuck in our head.

495
00:20:10,299 --> 00:20:10,509
Right.

496
00:20:10,509 --> 00:20:14,169
It's hard because we like
to focus on what's missing.

497
00:20:14,199 --> 00:20:14,619
Right.

498
00:20:14,709 --> 00:20:15,459
But you can't do that.

499
00:20:15,459 --> 00:20:16,929
That's not how manifestation works.

500
00:20:16,929 --> 00:20:17,109
Right.

501
00:20:17,109 --> 00:20:18,219
That's not how we achieve things.

502
00:20:18,219 --> 00:20:20,469
You got to focus on what
it is that you do want.

503
00:20:20,499 --> 00:20:22,449
that's the hard part,
but I know you can do it.

504
00:20:22,509 --> 00:20:22,929
Okay.

505
00:20:23,319 --> 00:20:28,959
So find me on Facebook or Instagram
@chelsea.vanbuskirk send me a DM.

506
00:20:28,959 --> 00:20:29,299
Let me know.

507
00:20:29,299 --> 00:20:32,609
What's up, let me know if you listen,
let me know if you've manifested stuff

508
00:20:32,609 --> 00:20:35,759
in your life already, or you're working
on another manifestation, give it to me.

509
00:20:35,759 --> 00:20:36,149
Let me know.

510
00:20:36,149 --> 00:20:37,019
I want to hear from you.

511
00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:38,349
I'll see you next week.

512
00:20:38,349 --> 00:20:40,999
I got some, I've got some really
good episodes coming up with

513
00:20:40,999 --> 00:20:43,159
interviews it's going to be awesome.

514
00:20:43,549 --> 00:20:44,639
Super powerful story.

515
00:20:45,439 --> 00:20:50,129
Definitely a story that , illustrates
just what Heart as fuck is.

516
00:20:50,159 --> 00:20:50,579
Right?

517
00:20:50,969 --> 00:20:53,859
Following your heart, doing
the hard as fuck things.

518
00:20:54,389 --> 00:20:56,759
Because you can't deny the
truth that's within you.

519
00:20:56,909 --> 00:20:57,299
Right.

520
00:20:57,329 --> 00:20:58,979
So that's Heart as fuck.

521
00:20:59,289 --> 00:21:00,369
I'll see you guys next week.

522
00:21:00,489 --> 00:21:00,609
Peace.